How to handle your partner? (Tips for Husbands and wives)

In this article, we will give you some tips and tricks to handle your partner properly and then also provide a recipe to a good relationship.

It’s our 2nd valentine today. Time flies when you are in love. It was really easy for us. She is the best GF. Yes, the best. My life is heaven because of her.

Hihi, OK, Enough! Before you leave this article, let’s come to the point. Honestly, it’s never that easy to adapt with your partner.

Everyone has layers and as time passes, they keep unfolding.

It must not be this way from the first day, that you want to control your husband. There is always a phase in the most relationship where people try to love. So, where’s the problem now? Is he cheating you? Do you want to love? Or money?

Whatever you want, follow our path. And your partner will never get out of your control. It’s not a circus so we won’t teach you things to scare but the ways you can persuade him.

1. Love is Most Important

The best way to handle him is by giving more love. True love doesn’t cost anything. So give it as much as you can. It promotes understanding, positive feelings, sexual pleasure and much more. Your love doesn’t need to be perfect. It just should be true.

Sooner or later, it will arouse love in your partner’s heart too and everything will be back on track like those earlier days. This has happened with us a lot of time.

2. Understand his expectations

Your husband isn’t a kid. He is an adult male who has some dreams and aspirations in his life. Find all this and help him, achieving them. If there is something which he wants and you don’t, then communicate clearly about that.

Talk to him about your own expectations in the relationship. Be sharp and concise. Start reading good books and get new ideas to make it special.

To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to.

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3. Communicate!

Now, you have started the love bites and also have some knowledge about what he wants from his life. So, what next? My life has still not transformed. I think you guys may lack proper communication.

You need to become more disciplined. Make some rules which will force you to interact with each other. Start going out for late-night walks. Talk to him about your problems daily, ask for some suggestions to improve them. Be nice and teach him to be.

4. Don’t test the limits

Have a clear idea about where he is bad and when he gets irritated or angry. This is one of the most important lessons somebody can ever give you. So, once you have some idea about your partner’s limits, slow down. Don’t let him reach there in any way.

Suppose if your partner doesn’t like to be in the crowd, take him out of there and make him drink water. It seems childish but if you can make your guy happy, then he is yours. There is no other way. Remember, he is no circus lion. Compound Interest can work even here. So keep doing more good things.

 

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5. Make official Agreements

What? Seriously? Yeah! this is the part where real handling can happen. Sit together. Prepare a written agreement. Negotiate and decide how you guys want this relationship to move around. This may sound materialistic.

If you don’t want him to throw his sweaty clothes on the couch, then mention it in the agreement. Mention extensively about the private time you want from him and every other decent thing including expenses, gifts, etc.

Follow these steps and your partner will be yours forever! Don’t trust me. Just try first and challenge later. Believe me! these steps are just magical. You don’t need to handle him, it will just happen automatically.

I face new problems daily in my relationship. But, it gets easy to tackle them with a proper plan. Read more about some tips to make your relationships healthy.